Not really adult... Pregnancies...

So, ex best friend, only ex best friend because she never gets on or anything and has moved, got pregnant... 7 months ago, and still with the same guy.

Question: What do you think? Is she still with him because she's stuck with him, or because she really does "love him?"

If you answer, give a reason. (:

does she seem like an pushover? if not then she probably is in love with him. i've seen chicks get preggo over someone they thought they loved and still leave the guy.

She might be afraid to leave

Jdawg wrote:

does she seem like an pushover? if not then she probably is in love with him. i've seen chicks get preggo over someone they thought they loved and still leave the guy.

Eh, pretty sure she's just with him still because it's easier than being single...

yea i see that alot too. chicks these days, well guys too but mainly girls, need to learn what love really is.

We can't really answer your question since we don't know them. But its a possibility of both, she can love him, or she is afraid to leave him and end up being a single mother (alsuld have one less check).

Jdawg wrote:

yea i see that alot too. chicks these days, well guys too but mainly girls, need to learn what love really is.

And what would you define it as? I swear to god if you go to dictionary.com I will cut your head off. lol

@Defy, I'm saying hypothetically, if you were to see it happening, what would your best guess be.

well everyone has there own opinion, but what i mean is all these girls thinking, this guy is hot. he gives me attention and calls me beautiful. it must be true love...lol that shit.

BooBearSH wrote:

And what would you define it as? I swear to god if you go to dictionary.com I will cut your head off. lol

@Defy, I'm saying hypothetically, if you were to see it happening, what would your best guess be.

I would base it off how they are acting, their emotions so to speak.

Defy wrote:

I would base it off how they are acting, their emotions so to speak.

Emotions can be forced for the sake of the children, and you could never see it.

Depends really on how old they are/how long they have been together. If they are young, and haven't been together long, there is barely any love. Maybe confusion of that lust they once had for each other. They could be young and be together for a long time, then I would believe there is some love in the situation. I guess older people tend to force feelings in these situations if they haven't been together long.

It really depends on just who it is. If something like that happened to me I would know for sure it would be a guy I love and know wouldn't leave me in shit times. Seeing that I don't jump from partner to partner.

I believe it follows the same reason some people feel the NEED get married; because they're pregnant.
I think she's still with him because he IS the kid's father afterall. Maybe she feels thats what needs to happen.

Pregnant ppl are disgusting.
looking at a pregnant belly makes me want to vomit; your a host to a parasite on purpose? bleh..

Maybe it's just because of the kid. There are some people who prefer to have the father of their child around for the sake of the child.

Hopefully the dad can provide at least a portion of the kid's needs?